Can I be down and dirty, gritty and real here for just a bit?
Alycia from Quilts Girl got me thinking….. Actually, I’ve already been pondering some related things, but her post was a definite piece of the puzzle. She wrote a great post about finishing, or not. You can read it here. Go ahead, I’ll wait. 😊

I’ve been working on cleaning out my house lately. Mr. Wonderful and I would eventually like to downsize our Michigan home. I don’t want to leave a big mess for my kids to deal with down the road.

This means lots of sorting, donating, selling, pitching. It’s a big job. It’s hard. It’s messy. But I’d rather do this than leave it for my kids, not that I’m planning on going anywhere soon!

Clearly, my sewing stuff is a big category. I have been giving quilts away, and have more to part with. I need to pare down the herd of sewing machines and collectibles. (This one is not for sale yet 😊).

Alycia reminded me that one thing I can let go of, is finishing every project I have started. My kids are under no obligation to finish them either. Who made the rule that we have to finish everything? I will say that I do enjoy finishing most things, but I hereby release myself from the obligation of it. Big difference.
So, I’ve decided to put these away for now. Eventually, I might let them go altogether. I’ve given myself permission.

Life is too short to spend on things that don’t matter. And in the light of eternity, it does not matter if I don’t finish this little thing, but move on to something else more important or engaging.
And if my kids want to drop everything that’s left at Goodwill for another quilter to find, I’m good with that.
So, you all just got a little peek into the chaos of my head! I’m still processing, so if none of this makes sense, that’s my excuse. 😁
And if you have any tips or ideas regarding downsizing, please share!
Have a great day!






























































